Salaam, Love: American Muslim Men on Love, Sex, and Intimacy By Ayesha Mattu and Nura MAznavi who are about Muslim men who are stereotyped as either oversexed Casanovas willing to die for seventy-two virgins in heaven or controlling, big-bearded husbands ready to rampage at the hint of dishonor.

The truth is, there are millions of Muslim men trying to figure out the complicated terrain of love, sex, and relationships just like any other American man.